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  • Afterdark
    Tue, Dec 12
    Zoom Zoom Zoom
    Dec 12, 2023, 8:00 PM EST – Dec 16, 2023, 9:30 PM EST
    Zoom Zoom Zoom
    Dec 12, 2023, 8:00 PM EST – Dec 16, 2023, 9:30 PM EST
    Zoom Zoom Zoom

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Reimagining Dirty Talk as Sensual Communication

In this session, we focus on being a different kind of tied up – tongue tied! Sometimes it can be difficult, and downright activating, trying to say the “right” thing while we play. Steph compassionately invites participants to de-center perfectionism and performance and instead just enjoy the ride. This is an opt-in interactive workshop with tips, tricks and directly given scripts to help folks feel safe as they engage in word play. To those who dare play out loud- I look forward to hearing you. 😉


Peaches, Peaches, Peaches, Peaches, PEACHES!  - Intentional Striking 101

It’s not the size of the a$$, but the skill of the striker. Join Steph to learn all about booty-centered impact play. This session invites attendees to utilize ongoing sensual communication to set the tone before a palm or paddle lands on a single cheek. Participants will have the opportunity for optional hands-on/ass-up practice whether topping, bottoming or both. Steph offers physical tips for striking with hands and paddles, as well as strategies to integrate word-play between hits. Come to actualize your sensual connection to impact, pain, and pleasure.


Big Daddy Energy (BDE) 

What’s a Daddy? Who can be one? What does it take? How do I exuuuude Daddy Energy? Join Steph in this deliciously shame-free session to learn all about your/my/their/our Daddyness. We’ll focus less on definitions and more on building out the characteristics, behaviors, and responsibilities of a Daddy. This workshop is designed to benefit participants who want to embody Daddy and those who just want a really good Daddy. Connecting emotion to character is key in our Build-a-Daddy workshop.


Setting The Scene: Becoming an Intentional Dom(me)

This session will offer space for theory/information and practical application in real time. Join Naomi Ardjomand-Kermani aka Mx. Sizzle & Steph Zapata for their intentional approach where participants can expect to own/embrace the great power and therefore great responsibility of Dom/Domme-ing. We’ll dispel common myths/misinformation about scenes & topping, learn the importance and application of trust/vulnerability in play, and spend time crafting intentional language that supports subs and Doms/Dommes alike. Through a decolonial trauma-informed framework, we will dive into the very real experience of healing (and affirming identities) through kink. Participants will be given the space and tools to personalize their style of dominating, and, not only set, but run the scene themselves.

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